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The EYL Story

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Engineering Your Life™ wasn’t born from a business plan, it was born from a calling. As a successful engineer and technology leader, Robert Haines spent years performing and managing others’ expectations. But when life cracked open — through divorce, panic attacks, and emotional collapse — he received a wake-up call that couldn’t be ignored.

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He devoted years to healing grief, codependence, and the unraveling of who he thought he was. Through mindfulness, spiritual teachings, Jungian psychology, and mentorship, Robert began reconstructing his inner world using the same systems thinking he once applied to technology. In that process, he discovered his Purpose — not as a concept, but as a living blueprint for how to show up, serve, and lead.​​

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This wasn’t theoretical. It was forged through lived experience — tested, refined, and integrated in a continuous upward spiral. From personal survival emerged a universal framework: one that empowers others to reconnect with their own truth and design lives rooted in clarity, courage, and authentic alignment.

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Today, Robert lives into that Purpose every day. Through Engineering Your Life™, he guides high-performing professionals and seekers to uncover their inner blueprint and take bold, joyful action toward the life they were meant to live.

Meet Robert

I’m Robert Haines.  It is good to meet you.  I bet that there is a very good reason you are here, reading this - and that you are here right now.

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I didn’t just wake up one day with clarity.  I went on a mission. I searched, studied, questioned - obsessed - and kept showing up. For months and years.  And, from that journey, I built something real - something I now share.

 

Because I believe that you deserve a life that’s designed to powerfully support your purpose.

Not someday

Not when it’s convenient

Now

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If you are here, chances are you can feel it. That edge. That whisper. That sense that something more is just around the bend. You can taste it - it’s right there. On the tip of your tongue.

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And I want you to know: there are tools. Practical, usable tools - real frameworks we can work with together. Tools that help you move through the fog, reconnect with your truth, and take bold, aligned action.


I love helping people remember who they are.  To reclaim what matters.  To build lives that feel like home.

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If THIS is what you’re ready for, I’m here and I'm prepared to be the wilderness guide on your journey to discover and move powerfully towards your purpose. Let’s begin.​

Click SCHEDULE below, and we can get started.

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